There is another way…..

  As I began to raise my children and felt either compelled to use bribery/ punishment or just ignore everything and “hope” for the best, I noticed neither way gave me peace of mind for long (if at all). I began a journey looking for another way. I...

House-keeping, Taxi-driving, Resident cook:

   There is this place I stand in the assembly line moving the machine forward. Feeding this in and taking that out and moving this lever forward to make the great beast of RESPONSIBILITY inch onward. My mind wanders. What if I went to the beach?*ka-chunk*. I’d like...

My own journey of self discovery

  In  my own journey of self-discovery, I have come across many limiting beliefs. They have prevented me in the past from living the life that I loved. These beliefs were put into place as a young child, and initially I found fault with my parents because of them. I...

How Beautiful It Is To Let Things Go

  So where do you find yourself with this deep ugly emotion? The picture to the last post is so perfect. “can’t spell failure without U.” This is the place it comes from –you pointing your finger at you and criticizing or degrading. I didn’t make it on the bike ride,...

Caught In a Loop

    Do you ever feel caught in a vicious cycle? I watched my boys act out a cycle I know only too well. I honed it in school and it still shows up in my life sometimes, today. This is what it looked like for them 1: assignment they didn’t want to do (negative...